The Civil War often produced some
surprising connections between major figures on the two sides of the conflict. One
little-known incident involved John W. Lea from the 5th Carolina, which would later become
part of Iverson's Brigade. Lea was born on Sept. 16, 1838 and spent his early
years in Caswell County, North Carolina. Following the death of his father in
1855, financial problems forced his family to move in with his uncle at Holly
Springs, Mississippi. Lea received an appointment to West Point from that state
two years later. During his time at the academy, he became best friends with
his fellow cadet, George Armstrong Custer, who gave him the nickname
"gimlet." Lea resigned from West Point in December of 1860 and helped
raise a volunteer company in his home state.
He entered the war as captain of that company,
which soon became part of the 5th North Carolina. In early May of 1862, Lea was
cited for bravery during the fighting at Williamsburg, where he was wounded and
captured. While being held under house
arrest in Williamsburg, Lea married Margaret Durfey, who was one of the local women
who attended his wounds. The guests at his wedding included his old friend
Custer, who served as the best man. Custer noted in a letter to his sister that
they "were both struck by the strange fortune which had thrown us together
again under such remarkable circumstances."
Lea remained a prisoner until
early in November, when he finally rejoined the regiment. He later received
promotion to the rank of lieutenant Colonel and served with his regiment in Iverson's
Brigade. Following the war, Lea became a
minister in West Virginia and died there in 1884.